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{The time is now|Could now be the time} To Give Up and Just Accept Yourself {Because|Since|While} You Are?



























My answer: {it depends}.

{If you have} been {fighting} shyness or {interpersonal|sociable|cultural|public|communal} anxiety {for a long time}, then I'm sure you've {experienced|got|acquired|possessed} some depressing thoughts before.

Thoughts like:

"{Imagine if} my confidence {won't} improve, and {I'll} be this {silent|peaceful|calm|noiseless|tranquil}, timid, {uncomfortable} and {timid} for {the others} of {my entire life}?"
"{Imagine if} I never become comfortable around {the contrary} sex {rather than} find a {sweetheart|partner|girl|lover} or {partner|sweetheart} who {enjoys|adores|is in love with} me?"
"{Imagine if} I'm always {heading} to be haunted by this {dread}, {stress|panic|anxiousness|stress and anxiety|nervousness} and nervousness ... especially around people I only sort-of know?"
And {if you have} had {these} thoughts, then I'm sure you've also {considered to} yourself...

"Maybe {I WILL} Accept {THIS IS ONE WAY} I Am"
Now, I {concur that} {taking|receiving|acknowledging|agreeing to|recognizing} yourself is important.

When {you do not} {acknowledge|recognize|agree to|allow|admit} yourself, then shyness and {interpersonal|sociable|cultural|public|communal} {stress|panic|anxiousness|stress and anxiety|nervousness} become ten times {more challenging} to overcome.

Because when {you are not} {more comfortable with} yourself, then {you can't really} be comfortable and {calm|laid back} around {other folks}.

When {you do not} {acknowledge|recognize|agree to|allow|admit} yourself, then you'll always feel {stressed|restless|troubled} and {anxious|stressed} around people, and {you will not} {even understand} why.

{Its} hard {to seriously} {hook up} with people and form close friendships.

And {obtaining a} girlfriend or {partner|sweetheart} {is a} HUGE uphill {fight|struggle|challenge}. ({Whenever you|Once you|If you|After you|While you} can't {open up|start} yourself up {and also you|and you also|so you|therefore you|and you simply} can't "be there" for someone, then what chance {have you got}?)

{Alternatively}, {if you are} accepting and {more comfortable with} yourself, then issues like insecurity, self-consciousness and a {concern with} rejection {disappear completely} almost automatically.

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