The Worst Shyness Advice {Upon|About|In} the globe

It's truly amazing {how lousy} most shyness advice is.

It mindlessly repeats the same 5 tips {again and again}. {It really is} completely out of touch with how REAL {timid} people think. And it truly {feels|thinks|is convinced} {the entire world|the planet|the globe|the earth} needs {another|just one more} dumb motivational {stating|expressing|declaring} like "fake it 'til you make it."

Even the name "shyness advice" makes me want to {burn off|burn up|lose|melt away|shed} all the {personal|do it yourself|home|self applied} help {literature|catalogs} in the {collection|catalogue}.

I've spent {the previous few} months creating {the next} version {from the|in the|with the|on the|of this} Shyness and {Sociable|Public|Community|Friendly} Anxiety System.

{I needed} to update {the machine} to make it {better still}. {So that it} was with great reluctance {which i|i|that we} started studying {literature|catalogs} and courses {about how precisely} to {conquer|get over|defeat|triumph over|beat} shyness again.

{I've} an extraordinarily careful process for {learning} advice: I buy every course, product, and {publication|reserve|e book|booklet}. I {research|examine|analyze|review} them intensely, keeping {records} and {evaluating|contrasting|assessing|looking at|checking} them. I build techniques, models and frameworks, endlessly test them, and {sometimes|occasionally} rip them up {and begin} again.

By {enough time} you ever {visit a} course from me, {it's been} {silently} inspected and {examined|analyzed} by {a large number of} people.

And {in the end} this research, what {I came across} was {significantly|critically|really|very seriously} discouraging.

{I came across} advice {compiled by} {individuals who have} {never really had} shyness. ({Actually}, most {personal|do it yourself|home|self applied} help {authors|freelance writers} or psychologists write {literature|catalogs} {your money can buy} and {acknowledgement|reputation|identification|popularity|acceptance}, not because they actually {learn how to} help people.) {If indeed they} have never {individually|in person|privately|professionally|in my opinion} {experienced|sensed|believed|thought|noticed} what it's {prefer to} be nervous, {timid} or {stressed|restless|troubled} in {interpersonal|sociable|cultural|public|communal} situations, then how would THEY know which advice {really works}?
{I came across} advice that {attempted|tried out} to be "motivational" -- by using {exhausted|fatigued|worn out} old phrases like "{Consider} about what's the {most severe|most detrimental} that {can occur}!" or {letting you know} to "Imagine yourself being {assured|self-confident|comfortable|self-assured|positive}."
I found {university or college|college or university|school} studies about shyness {which were} almost unreadable. They used long important-sounding words to {describe|make clear} simple and {evident|clear} ideas. {I came across} myself {thinking|questioning|wanting to know|thinking about|pondering}: Are professors really this dumb? The answer is no. {However they} {don't possess} a clue {as it pertains} to shyness.
So here are 5 of the {most severe|most detrimental} {bits of} advice -- {THAT IS} REAL SHYNESS ADVICE -- that {I came across}. Seriously, {they are} actual things {that folks} {published|had written|composed} and were {payed for}.

I {drawn|taken} these 5 {bits of} hilariously bad shyness advice from my {inner|interior|inside} research vault.

Let's {focus on}...

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