{A smart} person's {power|durability} is often their {reasoning}, {this means} their weakness is {feelings|thoughts}.

{With regards to} dealing with {feelings|thoughts}... a {great deal|whole lot} of smart people ({men|fellas|folks} especially) become totally {unpleasant|uneasy} and {iced}. Maybe they {learn to|commence to} repress or {try to escape} from the {feelings|thoughts}... especially the bad ones like {dread}. {Concern with} being rejected, {concern with} {checking} and {linking|hooking up|attaching|joining} with others, {etc|and so forth}.

Many people {would prefer to} DIE in {lonesome|unhappy|depressed} isolation than admit that {they don't really} {learn how to} deal {using their|with the} {feelings|thoughts}... or, GOD FORBID, {require} help!

Hey, I {proceeded to go|gone|travelled} for YEARS {such as this}. I {really know what} it's like. {However the} {the truth is} that anyone can {figure out how to} {manage|deal with|take care of|cope with} and even {Grasp|Expert|Get better at|Get good at|Professional} their {thoughts} (even {dread})...{if indeed they} just take {enough time} and {work} to {understand how} to do it.

If this is you, then do yourself {a huge|a major} favor... {make an effort}. Take {your time and effort}. Don't {be concerned|get worried|be anxious|fret|stress} about whether {another person} {can look} down {you} for {learning} "self help." {What counts} is you doing {things that} {You must do} FOR YOU.

I think {the key reason why} I'm so {captivated by} "The Socially Inept Genius Puzzle" {is basically because} {I had formed|I had developed|I had fashioned|I put|I needed} to {have a problem with} {many of these} issues {for a number of} years of {my entire life}.

Now, I'm not {stating|expressing|declaring} that I'm the smartest {man|person|dude} {on earth}... Yet it always bothered the hell out of me that even though {I had been|I used to be|I got} {so excellent} at figuring things out... ...I couldn't {find out} what I was {lacking|absent} when it {arrived|emerged|came up} to being {proficient at} conversations and {interpersonal|sociable|cultural|public|communal} skills like {other folks}.

Something {informs me} that you {really know what} I'm {discussing}.

Well, after {defeating|conquering} my head {contrary to the|from the|up against the|resistant to the} wall for {a couple of years}... trying {a myriad of|all types of} crazy {products}... I finally {received|acquired} the {shiny|dazzling|glowing|excellent|smart} idea {to start out|to get started on} studying people {who have been|who had been} "naturally" good socially. By carefully {learning} {the actual|the particular} "naturals" {do|performed|have|does} and said in {discussions|interactions}... and learning how their {thoughts|heads|brains|intellects|imagination} worked... I {started out|commenced} {to understand} that {interpersonal|sociable|cultural|public|communal} skills weren't LOGICAL {whatsoever|in any way|by any means}.

{I had been|I used to be|I got} doing {a lot of things} in a fundamentally {incorrect} way, and {the greater|a lot more} I {attempted|tried out} to "fix" my problems, the less {improvement} I made. {A lot of} what I {discovered} was very {difficult|hard|challenging|rough|troublesome} for me {to simply accept}... because my {reasonable|rational} brain just didn't {need it} {involved with it}. It's {like this} quote that {will go|moves|should go|runs}:

"{You are unable to|You can not|You can|You should not|Manage to survive} solve {an issue|a challenge|a difficulty|problems|issues} at the same {degree of} thinking which created it."

That's what becoming {well informed} and skilled socially {is similar to}. It {required|got|had taken|needed} me {a while}, but I {continuing|extended|persisted|prolonged|sustained} to learn, test, and refine what I was learning until {Personally, i} {determined} how to {conquer|get over|defeat|triumph over|beat} shyness and {interpersonal|sociable|cultural|public|communal} anxiety...

I learned {how to be} {assured|self-confident|comfortable|self-assured|positive} and talkative whenever and wherever...

I learned {developing} a social {group} of friends from {scrape|scuff|damage|nothing}...

And once {I acquired} this area of {my very own} life {collectively|jointly|along|mutually|alongside one another}, I decided {to start out|to get started on} helping other {timid} and socially {stressed|restless|troubled} people {understand this} {part of|section of|portion of|region of} THEIR lives {collectively|jointly|along|mutually|alongside one another}. {Actually}, I created {a complete} system to help you do it.

The Shyness and {Sociable|Public|Community|Friendly} Anxiety System

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